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THE PESSIMISTIC JEW REPORT
A Middle-Aged Feminist's Blog
If you are reading this, you probably know me already. These are the things I have to say.



*HOLOCAUST TRIGGER WARNING*
***HOLOCAUST TRIGGER WARNING*** Ofer's wife Ilil works at Yad Veshem, which is the Israeli national Holocaust museum. She is a researcher who specializes in photographs and film of people and places during the Holocaust. Knowing that I found some information about my family history when I was doing research back in 2014 to help me find Yehuda, she decided that this visit was the time that our family should finally officially submit what Yad Vashem calls "testimony" about our
Jan 21


Part 1 of Day 10 in Israel-Palestine, 15 January 2026: Walaja
On Jan 15th I went to the West Bank for the first time. I want to specifically thank my dear friend Amy Laura Cahn for having years of conversations with me about my feelings about visiting my family and not engaging with human rights work in Palestine (she gave me permission and helped me give myself permission). Then having conversations this past November about me feeling like I couldn't any longer give myself permission to not engage, and encouraging me to do it even whil
Jan 17


Day 9 in Israel-Palestine: 14 January 2026
This is what has been going on: I developed a sinus infection, which happens to me when I am traveling sometimes. It hasn't happened in a while, but it happened the first time I came to Israel-Palestine in 2014. I think it's the combination of weird airplane pressure, dry air on the airplane, 10 hour flight, and the relatively dry climate here compared to where I live, plus "foreign" pollen, plants, dust. I felt just under-the-weather enough for several days to limit my activ
Jan 14


Day 2 in Israel/Palestine, 6 January 2026
I'm here in Jerusalem. Flight felt oddly shorter than 11 hours. It was an overnight flight, as most of them seem to be, and I’m so sleepy. I’m staying tonight in a hotel not far from Ofer's house, just for tonight and then tomorrow I move into an Airbnb studio that I’ll have for the rest of my time here. My flight landed at 7 AM Israel time and it’s 12:14 PM now and my room should be ready soon. I am so so so sleepy. I used Google maps to find a place to have some lunch near
Jan 11
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