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*HOLOCAUST TRIGGER WARNING*
***HOLOCAUST TRIGGER WARNING*** Ofer's wife Ilil works at Yad Veshem, which is the Israeli national Holocaust museum. She is a researcher who specializes in photographs and film of people and places during the Holocaust. Knowing that I found some information about my family history when I was doing research back in 2014 to help me find Yehuda, she decided that this visit was the time that our family should finally officially submit what Yad Vashem calls "testimony" about our
Jan 214 min read


Part 1 of Day 10 in Israel-Palestine, 15 January 2026: Walaja
On Jan 15th I went to the West Bank for the first time. I want to specifically thank my dear friend Amy Laura Cahn for having years of conversations with me about my feelings about visiting my family and not engaging with human rights work in Palestine (she gave me permission and helped me give myself permission). Then having conversations this past November about me feeling like I couldn't any longer give myself permission to not engage, and encouraging me to do it even whil
Jan 176 min read


Day 9 in Israel-Palestine: 14 January 2026
This is what has been going on: I developed a sinus infection, which happens to me when I am traveling sometimes. It hasn't happened in a while, but it happened the first time I came to Israel-Palestine in 2014. I think it's the combination of weird airplane pressure, dry air on the airplane, 10 hour flight, and the relatively dry climate here compared to where I live, plus "foreign" pollen, plants, dust. I felt just under-the-weather enough for several days to limit my activ
Jan 1410 min read


Day 2 in Israel/Palestine, 6 January 2026
I'm here in Jerusalem. Flight felt oddly shorter than 11 hours. It was an overnight flight, as most of them seem to be, and I’m so sleepy. I’m staying tonight in a hotel not far from Ofer's house, just for tonight and then tomorrow I move into an Airbnb studio that I’ll have for the rest of my time here. My flight landed at 7 AM Israel time and it’s 12:14 PM now and my room should be ready soon. I am so so so sleepy. I used Google maps to find a place to have some lunch near
Jan 112 min read


Heading to Israel/Palestine on 5 January 2026
Hi everyone. It's been a long time. I stopped social media after 10/7/23 because I couldn't stand what people said on all sides. I haven't really missed social media at all but I've missed you all. Right this moment, I am in JFK airport about to board a flight soon nonstop to Tel Aviv. It’s the first time I’ll see my Israeli family in three years. Last time was January 2023. Yehuda is dead. He died in early 2024 and I never got to say goodbye to him although I sent him lots o
Jan 113 min read


Jerusalem 7 January 2026
Today is day 2 of this year's trip to Israel/Palestine. I haven't been here for three years because of the war and conflict following the 7Oct23 attacks. I have missed my family here so much it's difficult to even describe. Just to bring everyone up to speed as a recap: My family here are all descendants of my maternal grandfather's brothers who came here in the 1920's as Zionists who were fleeing terrible persecution and genocide in Poland/Austria-Hungary, in their town in t
Jan 75 min read
My election poem
My election poem I think this is the first poem I've written about you Which is surprising because you breathed poetry into me from the...
Nov 16, 20243 min read
November 11, 2024
(First: I was reminded that today is 11/11 and thus National Corduroy Appreciation Day and although I may not get out of my pajamas...
Nov 11, 20246 min read
Poem
Last night I had a dream I was trying to escape from a group of people Who had already killed a lot of people all over the world and...
Jan 11, 20247 min read


Brooke
For as long as I can remember, I have wanted to look like Brooke Shields. I can’t fully explain this. She is only five years older than I...
May 29, 202310 min read


Israel 2023: first blog missive
(Note: This post follows up on several Facebook posts about my trip to Israel, the first post was Jan 16th 2023. . Some of this might not...
Jan 22, 20234 min read


The Knee Odyssey
Hi all. This is going to be long. I want advice. Some of this is embarrassing to tell you but I will anyhow. When I was 19 years old I...
Dec 13, 20227 min read


It's Time
Today is June 25th, 2022. I wrote this poem about a year ago. It's time to let it be read. It Happened in Autumn (c) Wampuscat...
Jun 25, 20224 min read


How to Become Fat and Ugly: A Manual Only for the Very Brave. Chapter 2: Why
When last I left you, my dear reader, I was thinking about what it means to come of age as a young woman who had been taught by her...
Jul 26, 20217 min read


How to Become Fat and Ugly: A Manual Only for the Very Brave. Chapter 1: Origin Story
I don't remember the moment I first learned that I was fat and ugly. Surely I wasn't born thinking I was. My parents, both of them fat...
Jul 25, 20215 min read
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